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  Five Reasons You Do Not Want to Be in a Relationship || Part 2 Okay so, about 24 hours ago, I published an article here and I promised to release the fourth and fifth reason. So many of us sent a direct message to me which really inspired me to publish the other part of this article. Before we go into it, a lot of us asked about my mom’s reaction when I told her I was going to have boyfriend at the age of 18. Of course she was very astounded and couldn’t say much for a moment. We were both in the kitchen that day when I said it calmly. After a few hours, she started scolding me, reported me to my dad when he got back from work. Daddy has always been this cool man. He quietly sat me down and tried to make me understand that there was more to life. Mom’s most times used the “indaboski” method while dad was most times really calm. So yes, you have it! I present to you the fourth and fifth reason; 4. Have you first dated yourself? After some people have eaten breakfast, the rea...

Five Reasons You Don’t Want to be in a Relationship Being in a relationship is what we young people find ourselves craving for. Even the heart broken people who go around saying relationship is a scam and are avoiding another breakfast, still want a better relationship. In this article, I bring to you a few reasons you should not want a  relationship. Having another person to do life with is something beautiful but it becomes absolutely frustrating when some things are not first put in check. This is the gap I intend to fill here. 1. You Don't Know Yourself Yet. If you were asked; who are you?” you’d probably say "You are a chosen generation, or even talk about your background and family members. But who really are you? You really do not want to be in another person’s life when you haven't understood yourself to a good extent. When I was about fourteen years old, that stage of puberty as an adolescent where you just want to carry out adulthood adventures. As a younger Girl...